Thank You Buttons Disabled
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We've disabled the "Thank You" button and the "Thank Yous Received" counter. Why? Because a bunch of AN members and admins had a long discussion about AN and our community and the consensus was that because we're small (yet) and because most of us know each other really well we tend to be a difficult place to break into when someone shows up as a new member. There is a sense that the many "Thank You's" that some of us get can be a bit intimidating to new members. So, this is an effort to make this place easier to jump into and feel comfortable with.
If you do want to thank someone for a comment please just post that to them in a comment.
Thanks!
Has the been any discussion about the Posts: counter underneath our avatars? I wonder if it might have the same effect?
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Yeah, I thought this too - I don't always have a comment to make as a reply, but I do like to let the person know that I've read and appreciated what they said, and it seems like the only other alternative might be a whole list of very brief thankyou posts cluttering up a thread. But yeah, lots of other forums get by without them and I can see the other perspective too...
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Mark Peacock wrote: Good point. On the other hand, when someone devotes the time and energy to a long, thoughtful post, it was nice to be able to give some appreciative feedback. let them know they're not just writing to the crickets, without having to dilute the thread with thank-you-only posts. On another hand, thank you/ not thank you can get lazily similar to Cool/Not Cool. And Thank You button Click can be very subjective. A couple of times I happened to hit the board blazing with gratitude and could hardly restrain myself from a Thank You on whatever I read. Having to do a reply with some real content makes it more of a conversation.
Specifically to that, Mark, I think the tacit assumption needs to be that no post goes to the crickets, and that gratefulness is the default mode. If a post is exceptionally thoughtful, then by all means post a "huzzah" and not worry about dilution, probably because the gratitude will end up having more words anyhow.
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There's almost always some conversation or specific incident that triggers these sort of decisions. It can't have been a random "I just woke up this morning and felt like it" thing.
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That's all there is to it.
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Chris Marti wrote: Before the BG conference, on Friday, during a conversation with about six members here face to face, this point was made independently by a number of folks: it's hard as a new member to break through the rather small, intimate nature of this place.
For what it's worth, I didn't really find that - it was maybe a bit hard to start posting initially because I knew everyone was pretty tight and lots knew each other over a number of years from different forums (fora?) but basically if you jump in it was fine... might be an issue if you only post occasionally cos people won't really get to know you I spose. I just assumed that I might get more thankyous as people got to know me, like in any social circle really. Also one of my very favourite things about AN compared to other dharma/contemplative forums is the small intimate nature of it! I liked the thankyous, but I don't see it as a big deal.
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Thanks for all your input!