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www.tricycle.com/feature/romancing-buddha
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meaningness.com/metablog/bad-ideas-from-dead-germans -- and subsequent
and meaningness.wordpress.com/2011/06/07/the...-consensus-overview/
I'm sure, should you encounter him at BG, David Chapman could regale you...
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Now, 3 centuries later, we have Western Romantic Buddhism, which is often couched in terms of "self-actualization" and other Western psychological concepts, without regard to what the Buddha actually taught and what generations of monks have actually practiced.
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"Within Consensus Buddhism, there is a huge emphasis on emotional safety. It’s non-confrontational, unconditionally supportive, peaceful, supposedly-inoffensive. This may be appropriate for children, or for people who are severely emotionally damaged. It’s repulsive and ridiculous as an approach for grownups."
Thank you, Kate, for the links.
Chris Marti wrote: I like David Chapman's take on consensus Buddhism. Basically, it's about being "nice." And as he says, niceness kind of sucks as a serious ethical system:
"Within Consensus Buddhism, there is a huge emphasis on emotional safety. It’s non-confrontational, unconditionally supportive, peaceful, supposedly-inoffensive. This may be appropriate for children, or for people who are severely emotionally damaged. It’s repulsive and ridiculous as an approach for grownups."
Thank you, Kate, for the links.
Yeah, I have mixed feelings about that.
a) because it is a massive generalization (compare your mental image of a typical "nice Buddhism" practitioner who you actually don't know personally with everyone going out six degrees of separation who you actually know who practices any form of meditation)
b) because it disdains the importance of this exact function: to offer a way for ex-Christians and ex-Jews to be spiritual without dealing with the stuff they didn't like in their home religions: largely involving any feelings of guilt, punishment, fear, etc. (When we went around the group of 35 adults at the Buddhist center**, this was exactly the "reason i'm a Buddhist" everyone gave: "I was raised (Christian/Jewish) but I left it because of (angry God, scary hell, guilt/shame, rules I couldn't understand, judgemental stuff). Here I find a place where I can have community, a relationship with Wholeness, have a spiritual practice (ritual, prayer and meditation), an intellectual life on subjects of interest (dharma teachings/scripture)... and feel at home and safe." It's a needed function, not a problem.
c) it implies that we'd be better off if everyone were cranky - but the fact is 99% of people spend all day being cranky, ranting, raving, whining, being hateful towards others, condemning this and that, not liking everything, wishing so and so would die a miserable death.... To have .05% of the population choose to be nice or be taught to be nice is not the worst thing to happen to society.
** This was a Tendai Buddhist center run by a Japanese-trained abbot. When/if people's practice deepened beyond that sort of thing described above, which was true for a handful, they moved into deeper training, retreats, etc and did appropriate practices. I respect that he recognized and supported the fact that many people simply need a "church on Sunday" kind of engagement at some points in their lives, and it was okay for them to be where they were.
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There are plenty of Asian Buddhists who engage with Buddhism basically as a form of idolatry/magic/folk practice, not with any understanding of insight. Westerners slot it into a conceptual framework that is comfortable for them.
Very few people will ever engage with deeper spiritual seeking, because it's hard, it's painful, it's weird, and it destabilizes their deeply clung-to stuff. It's the human condition.
(If you read the Gospels with this eye, you can see most of the time Jesus is banging his forehead in despair, because nobody listens to what he's trying to explain.)
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"Looks like you two are in violent agreement."
I think so, too, just not if it's presented by David Chapman

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"Looks like you two are in violent agreement."
I think so, too, just not if it's presented by David Chapman

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"So what's the solution?"
There's a solution? (only half joking)
I think knowing how Western Buddhism has grown up is the main thing. It means knowing there is something being added or subtracted to the originals that showed up here. That's all. It's not a huge deal because a lot of good has come from the Western co-option of Buddhism. By the same token, some other things have come from it, too. The "mushroom culture" made famous by Dan Ingram is possibly an example of this - the substituting of vague psychological "stuff" for a real investigative, life changing practice.
Hope this helps...
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For me, the heart of the Tantric path is not magical methods or esoteric concepts. It is an attitude; a stance; a way of being. It is the attitude of passionate and spacious engagement with this world. It is an ecstatic and agonizing love-affair with everyday reality.
I remain in violent agreement with David Chapman on this

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I have coined the word “meaningness” to express the ambiguous quality of meaningfulness and meaninglessness that we encounter in practice. According to the stance that recognizes meaningness, meaning is real but not definite. It is neither objective nor subjective. It is neither given by an external force nor a human invention.
I call this a “complete stance” because it acknowledges two qualities: nebulosity or indefiniteness, and pattern or regularity. A complete stance does not deny any aspect of meaningness.
IMO, David's views on tantra are very much related to the concept of meaningness. The obvious response to the world (from the meaningness stance) is the above "passionate and spacious engagement". Spaciousness allows room nebulosity and engaged curiosity enjoys and utilizes the patterns that are there. More than that, because meaning is nebulous but not completely lacking the response is intense fascination with everything or an "agonizing love-affair with everyday reality."
Chris Marti wrote: Reality, this life, is not "nice" in the same way that the mainstream Western Buddhists built their Buddhism. You cannot hide from the good, the bad or the ugly and, in fact, the bad and the ugly are more likely to teach you something useful and meaningful to your life.
Yes and (or perhaps just reframing this from the other way) if nice is an important value than we're likely to end up stuck repeatedly. For example see the inability of mainstream Buddhism to deal with money issues, sex issues, power issues, attainments, lack of diversity, etc. The main problem is that you can't have a meaningful conversation about these topics without someone (or many) feeling hurt in some way so that nice response is to sweep it all under the rug. This works for a while but eventually someone trips over the rug and then you have a total mess

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Chris Marti wrote: Reality, this life, is not "nice" in the same way that the mainstream Western Buddhists built their Buddhism. You cannot hide from the good, the bad or the ugly and, in fact, the bad and the ugly are more likely to teach you something useful and meaningful to your life.
Yes and (or perhaps just reframing this from the other way) if nice is an important value than we're likely to end up stuck repeatedly. For example see the inability of mainstream Buddhism to deal with money issues, sex issues, power issues, attainments, lack of diversity, etc. The main problem is that you can't have a meaningful conversation about these topics without someone (or many) feeling hurt in some way so that nice response is to sweep it all under the rug. This works for a while but eventually someone trips over the rug and then you have a total mess
I will have a special investigative session on what log it is in my own eye that makes Mr. Chapman drive me nuts. My shit.
But as to the above I'm sorry, but this is not a Buddhist problem. It's not even a "religion" problem. It's a human problem. No tradition, system, institution, etc deals with this stuff successfully. Heck, the small non-profit committees I've been on can't even deal with this stuff.
The miracle is that somehow human beings manage to continue surviving and living in somewhat functional civilizations despite ourselves.
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Ona Kiser wrote: But as to the above I'm sorry, but this is not a Buddhist problem. It's not even a "religion" problem. It's a human problem. No tradition, system, institution, etc deals with this stuff successfully. Heck, the small non-profit committees I've been on can't even deal with this stuff.
Isn't the whole point of Buddhist practice (possibly not institutions) to deal with this human problem?
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Ona Kiser wrote: But as to the above I'm sorry, but this is not a Buddhist problem. It's not even a "religion" problem. It's a human problem. No tradition, system, institution, etc deals with this stuff successfully. Heck, the small non-profit committees I've been on can't even deal with this stuff.
Isn't the whole point of Buddhist practice (possibly not institutions) to deal with this human problem?
That's usually the point of every good idea.
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Remember, David has been "in the game" for something like 30 years at this point, and he's very analytical and philosophically inclined by temperament and education; he's been an Aro student for 20 years, or near to that.